Dear Evelyn, I think my house might be haunted. Every night at exactly 11:47pm something knocks three times on the inside of my wardrobe door. I’ve checked inside and there’s nothing there. My cat refuses to go upstairs after dark. My husband says I’m imagining it but he also sleeps through everything including our smoke alarm so I’m not sure he’s a reliable witness. Last Tuesday the knocking was four times instead of three which felt significant. Should I be worried? — Sandra, Ohio

Dear Sandra,

Oh, three knocks from inside the wardrobe is quite standard, dear. Most wardrobes develop a presence after about seven years, particularly if they contain wool coats or anything with emotional significance. Your visitor seems well-mannered — 11:47 is a perfectly reasonable hour, and the consistency suggests they’re trying to establish a routine rather than cause distress.

However, that fourth knock on Tuesday is worth noting. It usually indicates the entity is trying to communicate something specific. I’d recommend acknowledging them gently — perhaps a soft “good evening” through the door around 11:45. Don’t open it during the interaction, but a brief acknowledgment often helps these situations settle into something more comfortable for both parties. Your cat’s behavior confirms you’re dealing with a standard wardrobe presence rather than anything concerning.

The fact that they knocked four times suggests they may have something to show you, though I wouldn’t rush into that conversation. Let them get used to your acknowledgment first. Most wardrobe entities are quite shy once you begin communicating directly. Do avoid storing anything new in there for the next few weeks — they can be particular about their space during the adjustment period.

With care and patience,

Evelyn

“Most wardrobes develop a presence after about seven years, particularly if they contain wool coats or anything with emotional significance.”